you know when you actually thought the so-called " best friend forever or aka BFF" rank been given to you by a friend or someone who is close to you. You would probably be the happiest person in the whole world, but actually i find it pathetic. dumb and a lie. YES you would be happy IF you are in the same country with him/her, what if you migrated to another country? or moved to a far away place for overseas study? does the BFF stays forever? or isit just a lie?

i say its rubbish. however, sometimes it might just work." 1/10 chances of getting that type of friend though"...

but for people who love saying your my best friend forever..quit yapping that word...yes it makes you feel good for a temporary period.but long term NO NO NO!... so just say..best friend temporary.. rather then best friend forever...hopefully i make sense there...hahahs..
well got to go


sheenah said:why such a negative opinion? haha, something bad happen ei?


katrina said: wel i dun think that migrating to another country puts an end to the "best friends forever" relationship. you might be a little too hard on this saying its pathetic but its your opinion anyway and we all have different views on things. and whats the point of having a friend when you'll have him as your friend for a "temporary" period of time better not have a friend at all right? hahah.

I said:yes i respect your views in a degree, however, i myself have friends who are "overseas or has migrated" and we are still best friends.However, I'm really disappointed with a few of my "BESTFRIENDS" which has migrated - they practically don't reply to any of my emails or maybe any form of communication. Perhaps saying pathetic is relatively inappropriate, but you know, things changes around us all the time.Although we might not realize it or accept the fact. But what i strongly agree from you is "better not having a friend at all". This really points out something that i didn't thought of while typing that post of mine, because,practically, it is still better to have friends then not having at all. But isn't it sad when you got so close to someone and then suddenly you realized that you had to leave to another country,YES for a few weeks you will or might have a constant communication with her/him-because we miss that person so much.But what will happen after a month or so?what if the "i-miss-you" factor faded away or dissolved away from that person thought?what if the time difference of that person country has a huge difference, and we could not possibly meet up in msn or yahoo? What if that person needs a helping hand, and all that you could possibly do is point out your views to that particular friend of yours .Although we know that your/my friend would possibly understands us for not being there, but we still wants to give the best to our fellow friends right? but we could not possibly come all the way there just to help that person,right(due to expencive flight ticket)? And I'm positively sure all of us knows about this saying " action speaks louder than words". ....which will sum up that after a while, we would be so-called partially forgotten or completely forgotten.after awhile, he or she will start looking for a new bestfriend to seek comfort.

BUT actually, it is a case-by-case basis. so it might defers. this is what i'm just sharing with my experience

KAtrina said:points taken. heheh. i agree on that, its hard to keep up with the "communicating." but you can always leave a msg ryt, heheh. and, surely that friend will appreciate it though at times the friend may not reply due to very busy schedules whatev, you know that whatever you do to keep this "BFF" relationship is not taken for granted and that friend will surely see our efforts.

actions speak louder than words, hm, yea.but isnt it that the effort you exert in taking time to "talk" to her/him can be considered your actions, as you know it is rather difficult to show it personally (as you have mentioned tickets are way too expensive). well i dunow., i guess im a bit too complacent about the relationship i have with my best friends back there. so i still stand by the "bff forever" relationship. hahah.

right, case to case basis. i agree. :))